Martes, Disyembre 13, 2011

Love Quarrel ?

I do not believe there is a quarel free relations somewhere around the world. Right, quarel or argument are emothions, but the we should think not about the number of arguments in a relations, but about how the argurments are usually solved. Watching my parents who married almost 25 years now I never seen them really arguing hard. There were quarels and tears, but they were never turning into something wild. They were solving the problem, not creating more problems. That is what a believe to be right for long term relations. I failed to do the same myself when dating my ex-boyfriend, as we had terrible fights with screams and tears and more and more problems, but less and less communication and understanding between two of us. In the end we broke up, because we realized we are not able to change it. Something just wrong in our couple. He is a great guy, but we just were not meant to be together. We still friends and still had some arguments from time to time, so I guess we made the right decision when decided to break up.

5 Ways to Nurture Friendships

People are sometimes meant to come and go from our lives, staying around for only a short period of time. But other friends do have the potential to be long-term, and grow with you as your life changes. One way to keep friendships of any level strong is to actively nurture them.
Some friendships come easily and nurturing them is not hard to do. Others, however, require more thought and action. That's okay. Putting effort into a friendship doesn't mean the friend is not right for you, it simply means that your friendship is different and you need to work to keep it strong.

Is It Normal Not to Have a Best Friend?

Not everyone has a best friend in life, and that's perfectly okay. Some people have several close friends that give them love and support, but none of which they would consider a best friend. The key is not thinking in terms of "normal," because no two friendships are alike. Some people enjoy have different friends they can go out with or talk to, while others prefer to have one person they can continually count on to be with.

Should Friendships Last Forever?

The term BFF has pushed the notion that good friends, even best friends, are meant to be in your life forever, or until one of you passes. While some friendships do span an entire lifetime, others come and go. Friendships change as your life changes. Sometimes a friend's life mirrors your own, and as a result it's easier to stay friends for a long time. Other friendships may fade away for a while, only to regain strength and start anew later on.